@🪽:according to the song, his love for her faded. so american shows ther mutual excitement at the start of their relationship but according to begged, over time, he becomes less expressive about his love for her or less emotionally present. she tried to preserve the original intensity by being endlessly patient and understanding and by gaslighting herself that their distance is temporary but she’s becoming more anxious bc she remembers how good and natural it used to feel and she’s therefore maintaining the emotional weight of their relationship by herself. Dejavu?